Sunday, April 19, 2009

So I've been dating this woman for about a month or so. Took her out to eat for her birthday Friday night?

(her birthday was Saturday, but she had family stuff goin on and a %26#039;girls%26#039; night out%26#039; planned that night). Card, flowers..even a chew toy for her dog. So I call her Saturday afternoon to wish her a happy birthday. It was a very short conversation because she%26#039;d just gotten to her parents%26#039; house. Said %26quot;I%26#039;ll call you later%26quot;, but never heard from her the rest of the night. Should I be concerned that she didn%26#039;t follow through?

So I%26#039;ve been dating this woman for about a month or so. Took her out to eat for her birthday Friday night?
All I know is that if I really like someone, I%26#039;m going to call them regardless. However, she may have lost track of time, went out with the girls ( as we do) and it may have been too late to call you. You seem like a thoughtful guy. Just see if she calls tomorrow, she may be hungover (if she drinks) If she doesn%26#039;t call, then call her. If you get no response, then I would wait a few days, if no call then, well perhaps she feels you%26#039;re not that serious.
Reply:no, leave her alone, its her birthday and she spent Fri night with you...let her have sat night with her friends and family..dont smother the poor girl
Reply:never ever ever ever...do anything with a woman on her birthday...let her go do all those things and get with her afterwards...a month!....no no no my man don%26#039;t spend her birthday with her if you%26#039;ve only been together a month...you%26#039;ve pretty much blown this whole relationship...you should dump her immediately and go out dating/banging multiple women as soon as possible
Reply:She probably just forgot. Don%26#039;t worry unless she starts making a habit of not calling you back.
Reply:No you shouldn%26#039;t be concerned. On my birthday, I woke up in a drunken stupor a day %26amp; a half later, but I wouldn%26#039;t cheat on my boyfriend. She%26#039;s having fun with her girls and if her family is like mine, they don%26#039;t allow phones to be used during dinner time.





It doesn%26#039;t seem as though either is playing mind games with each other. I think you%26#039;re cool.
Reply:No, don%26#039;t be worried. If she%26#039;s celebrating her birthday with family and close friends she probably just got home later than expected and thought it was too late to call. Wait and see if she calls tomorrow. If not, give her a call tomorrow afternoon or evening and ask how her night was. I%26#039;m sure everything%26#039;s fine!
Reply:Probabaly not. Sometimes a visit lasts longer than you expect. Then you don%26#039;t want to call someone and wake them up.She may be just trying to be thoughtful.
Reply:She just can%26#039;t forget your words if she really likes you. Wait and watch. If she doesn%26#039;t talk about your offer, forget her or just have fun with her. Don%26#039;t have expectations in this case.
Reply:no just let her have her fun. it is sweet what you did but to have a good relationship you need trust
Reply:You said she had plans. I wouldn%26#039;t be concerned, probably just got busy and late. Call her Sunday afternoon, and ask how her evening was.
Reply:No she had family stuff planned and then a girls night out. She probably didn%26#039;t get in until late and figured it was too late to call you. If I didn%26#039;t hear from her today, Sunday, I would be concerned. It will probably be in the afternoon though.



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