If I'm a gay guy, can I send roses/flowers thru mail to my straight friend who's a girl--BUT she has a fiancee

This would be for her birthday, BUT I don't want to send the wrong message to her guy fiancee.

If I'm a gay guy, can I send roses/flowers thru mail to my straight friend who's a girl--BUT she has a fiancee
dont worry its perfectly fine


if he knows your gay thats even better on your part


im sure its only if your like buying her a ring or something that he would have reason to be questioning


thats very sensitive of you
Reply:I don't see anything wrong with it, especially if it's a happy birthday bouquet. If you were sending it to her on Valentines day that might raise a few eyebrows, but for a birthday there shouldn't be any issue. If it starts problems with her fiance because he's that insecure in their relationship then the trouble goes far beyond you.
Reply:Oh come on, flowers are sweet, period. If I were the fiance, I might get flustered for a moment, and then realize I'm marrying this person, so it doesn't matter.





Besides, it comes with a card. Write her a Hapy B-day.





Unless you're sending her one dozen red roses, there is no message other than friendship. Try yellow roses, they symbolize friendship.
Reply:Personaly I don't see why not. No offense but if you are gay what does her boyfriend have to worry about? I think it's cool you have a good friend who is a girl. I think everyone needs a good trustworthy friend of the opposite sex. They can talk to you and get opinions that may help you understand what is going on with you or your partner.
Reply:*raises eyebrows*


Unless this guy is a homophobe, then I don't think he's gonna have any problems w/ you sending roses to his fiancee.





Like I doubt he's gonna get insecure that you're gonna steal her away:P... and if he is, perhaps, their relationship is a sham.
Reply:If you can talk to the fiance, or communicate with him in some sort of way, I'd give him a heads up first... just to let him know. That way, he can also buy her flowers or something. I'm sure he will totally appreciate the heads up so he knows that he's going to have to step up his game! lol!!
Reply:why do u wanna send flowers- depends on the occasion. dont do it jUST to be nice my gay friend did something similar and now my bf thinks he's "pretending" to be gay. Also depends on how cool the other guy is. (If you know him well enough also)
Reply:Why don't you talk to the fiance first, and just tell him what the story is? Make it clear that you're sending your friend a gift, and that's all there is to it. If he's reasonable, he'll get it.
Reply:I don't see a problem with it, but make sure her fiancé knows your intent.





BTW, "fiancé" is a man and "fiancée" is a woman. I didn't know that until many years after I finished HS.
Reply:if he knows you're gay, he should be fine with it, but MAKE SURE HE KNOWS YOUR GAY, cause you could be in a lot of trouble, lol.
Reply:Yea as long as the fiance knows you don't love his wife... and send a card with the flowers congratulating her on her engagement


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Reply:That it appropriate.
Reply:Sounds fine to me, especially if he knows there is no way that you're into his girl in a romantic way.
Reply:only if they know your gay ! but whats the flowers for ? personalize the message u want to get accross to your friend if its flirty and they dont know ur gay ... then your screwed . but dont stress about it
Reply:If the fiance knows you ...then its okay








If he doesn't know you andyou think he is the jealous type... then no
Reply:Do so, but sound really gay in the card you send.
Reply:I think it would be okay.


Unless you think he is jealous of you.
Reply:Sure ! I don't see any problem with that and I am sure her fiance won't either.
Reply:hmm.. he may get the wrong idea
Reply:Its cool she knows your only friends
Reply:yeah if he knows your gay he wont give a ****
Reply:Sure
Reply:as long as he knows that you really are gay i don't think there would be a problem
Reply:yeh corse just dont do it 2 much coz then he will get jealous..
Reply:uhh...if dey say " Happy Birthday" in in it sum hOw....and if he knows ur gAy...den yeah..send a lil nOte dat sends hAppy b-day...so he wont think sumthin wrong though



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