Tuesday, April 14, 2009

What is a good way to observe the birthday of your mother who has passed away?

My mother%26#039;s birthday would be later this month and I would like to do something in her memory besides putting flowers on the crypt. What are some suggestions?

What is a good way to observe the birthday of your mother who has passed away?
invite your family over and have a party in her memory. tell each person that they should tell a story about your mother of happy times. just think of something that would make your mom happy. i send my blessing to you and your family.
Reply:go have dinner at her favorite resturant
Reply:Yes.
Reply:treat it as though she were alive. if your normal plans would be to go to dinner as a family, then do that. if the plans are normally to have a party, then start making invitations. the idea is to honor her, if she wouldnt spend her birthday in mourining at a cemetery then dont. honor her and celebrate her memory
Reply:Make a contribution to a charity in her name. This way in honor of her memory good work will be done to help others. And you may want to invite a family member or a few for a little get together.Take out scrapbooks of old family pictures and share all the good times and people that were part of her life. I%26#039;m sure she was a wonderful person.
Reply:Have a party...if that is what you did when she was alive. Particularly if you can still feel her around you; she may not be able to join in like the rest of the physical people, but it will give her joy anyway.





You%26#039;ll know if you%26#039;re on the right track if you start feeling patches of goosebumps on yourself...that%26#039;s to be taken as a %26quot;postive/yes%26quot; answer...if you should go that route; to know if mom shows up...more than likely she%26#039;ll be %26#039;patting%26#039; you on the head and such -- more goosebumps or a tickling sensation with a subtle %26#039;thank you%26#039; feeling.



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