I have been split up from my fiancee 0f 3 yrs. we now live in different places . it is her birthday this sun.?

Shall i send her a card. and flowers. i emailed her on the 30th but she does nor reply as of yet. i wish to give it another go but she says that she loves me but does not want to get back again. we have been apart now for a month i last heard from her nearly 2 wk ago saying that she just wants to be friends

I have been split up from my fiancee 0f 3 yrs. we now live in different places . it is her birthday this sun.?
Its going to be hard, but its time to let her go..
Reply:no send her a video of you banging her best friend or some other hot babe, and then move on because obviously she has
Reply:you could try sending the birthday pressies as a last attempt to win her back, but if she still doesnt want to know you should try to move on! time away may let her see how much she misses you!
Reply:You could send her a card, but I would not get my hopes up.
Reply:send a card only...leave it at that, if she is meant to return she will, give her some space, let her miss you and wonder what you are doing
Reply:Let her go!!!!! Stop hangin' on.......its only hurting you.
Reply:Keep on.. keep on..
Reply:no!


move on


there is a better girl 4ya
Reply:no, leave her alone before you make her mad.
Reply:now ive been here and it doesnt feel great does it?





what you should do is give her what she wants. and if thats space and not you getting back with her, so be it (sorry that wont make you feel better i know)





if you do choose to send her a card and flowers you could push her away more.





instead send her a card which isnt romantic and wish her a happy birthday. like you would any other friend. dont use it as an excuse to get her back or try to. not only will you eventually lose her by driving her away you may also lose her as a friend too.





as i said, a nice card saying happy birthday and nothing more. dont fill it with kisses or declarations of love. just be a friend and if anything does happen in the future then so be it.
Reply:If she has gone to such great lengths to let on that she just wants to be friends, maybe she JUST WANTS TO BE FRIENDS.





I wouldn't push it. She might be even more turned off by the desperation vibe that you're giving. Just give her some time, and let her make the next move. You've done all you can, so give her a chance to just think about it.
Reply:I think you should! because even you've been splited up dosen't mean you're enemies! so give it a go!
Reply:just send a birthday card and/or flowers if you want. You can still show her that you care.
Reply:She's found someone else.....please move on!





You'll end up looking like an idiot if you don't....besides -you've left the window open - she'll come to YOU if she changes her mind...


BUT that could just mean she "tried someone else out" and then came back to YOU - do you really want that?
Reply:If you want to give her something that she really wants, give her a break.
Reply:You dont need to send her flowers or cards, that is just going to make it look like you're too desperate to get her. You should call her and wish her happy birthday. If she gives u a sign that she is still interested then you can just see her and give her flowers.
Reply:If it was me, I would find another person to send some flowers to. Send her a card, say happy B-day, and move on. Clearly, her intent is to move forward, and without you. That's the brutal truth of it. She apparently doesn't want to come right out and say so...but if she "loves" you, then there is no reason she wouldn't want to be with you (unless you did something awful, in which case, you need to leave her alone anyway).





Just friends is another way of saying "I don't love you". So, move on. It's hard...but think of it this way; if she loves you, for real, she'll eventually get ahold of you. If not, which appears to be the case, then you won't be wasting your precious time persuing someone who isn't interested.





Good luck to you.
Reply:Leave it alone. While your heart might be in it, one month isn't long at all. I say give it some more time. If it is meant to be then it will happen but otherwise don't send her anything else.
Reply:It's time to move on bro...
Reply:If its her birthday show you care, send a card %26amp; flowers.


If she wants to be friends, you may have to accept that. She propaly does love you deep down, just doesnt want to show it.





As long as you stay as friends i wouldnt ask for any more. Keep in touch, and maybe in a few months she could be all yours again
Reply:it's nothing wrong with sending a card.
Reply:do whatever, move on if you have to there is so many people out there, you just have to know how to find them.





If she's not interested then move on!


I'd get her a card and maybe a gift, since your friends, you two will always have feeling for each other but you might not be together.


So if your good with women then move on.
Reply:Don't spend your money on her. You will only be wasting your effort. If she doesn't want to try again...it will on anger her to get a gift from you.





One of my ex -bf kept sending flowers for Valentines and my birthday for years...I loved the flowers, but hated what it stood for...his not listening. I was always polite, but he just wouldn't stop. It was very frustrating for me and I'm sure for him, too.





Let her go...unless she changes her mind, but for now...let her go.
Reply:I think sending her a card and flowers would be sweet =) And in the card you should say "I will always love you, and I am happy with being just friends." Nothing too dramatic though. No roses. Maybe like daisies or something ♥♥
Reply:Then quit pushing it. If she accepts everything you give up or reply to your emails then you will think you have a chance at being with her. Just mail her a card, nothing to personal, just to say you did not forget.
Reply:she has a new man move on
Reply:sending a card is nice. if she wants to be friends, then isnt that what friends do? But make sure the card says from a friend and not like a lovey card or anything, that'll scare her away
Reply:oh MY GOD ur story is same as mine really every thing is mine but i am going through a big depression due to split up, i dont know about you we have been togeather for 7 years , 7 most beautiful year of my life i dont know what to say to you i think you should send her flowers even if she dont like but send her that will be good atleast you have peace of mind that you send her flowers , that is what i think u can contact me at ownmirpur@yahoo.com add me in ur messager and we will chat on that i will pray for you hope you come out of your depression soon
Reply:Still send the cards and flowers. Its a nice gesture, even as a friend.








However, I do think that you should start dating other people. Not necessarily move on, but explore other options. Seeing you do this will do one of two things, it'll either drive her mad with jealousy, or she will be happy for you. If you still want to be with her you want the jealousy. If she is happy for you than it's plain to see all she wants is friends, and you will have to be ok with that. Give dating a shot. It doesn't have to be serious, just enough to stir some emotions with her.








Good luck!
Reply:No, leave her alone!



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